Proselfshipper - Blog Posts

N0nshar1ng w/ Ca1eb n Jum1n as 1f theyd ever wanna be w/ s0me1 l1ke y0u in the f1rst p1ace hell0 ( ¬‎ ࡇ,¬ )

I'm unsure of if you have an issue because I'm non-sharing with them or if it's because I'm proship but whatever issue you have with me you can always just block me. I'm going to assume the issue is the non-sharing aspect since you pointed that out, I feel like if it were a proship issue you'd have said this about all of my f/os lol, but I have no ill will in any way shape or form towards others who selfship with them. I support their relationship existing I just don't want to see it. I hold no attraction to real people, I'm just attracted to fictional characters or whatever so Jumin and Caleb feel like a real relationship to me if you get what I mean. I've loved Jumin since mysmes first came out (2016, almost 9 years now, of course there's an attachment) and Caleb just hit me hard even before he came out as a love interest, so I mean. Yeah. I think they want to be with me 😭 But it's not like a selfshipper needs to have some deeper reason for being non-sharing, if they're non-sharing then they're non-sharing and that's that. If you're uncomfortable with that you can always block them. Have a good day/night anon.

Hi proship selfshippers, your f/os wanted to remind you that they absolutely ADORE you, every little flaw, every unique aspect of you, every thing that makes you; you, they love it. If you were ever considering that they dislike you, that they're annoyed, fed up, or tired of you, you couldn't be further from the truth. No matter the struggle or the quarrel, their feelings for you will always be the same.

If an antiship selfshipper happens to come across this post, yes, this also applies to you too. This all applies to every selfshipper, no one's f/o would ever hate their partner or wish harm on their partner, period.

They love you, always remember that.

Caleb and I as kiddos :D my hair used to be longer as a kid now I keep cutting it 😭

Hi lazy selfship doodle because I can't sleep 😭 Why does Caleb look so mad

Proship selfshippers, did you know your f/os are so in love with you, like so in love it makes them look stupid... I'm chatting with them right now and they just won't stop talking about you! I don't mind, but I think they should be saying these things to you directly... Matter of fact, I'm sending them to you right now, your f/os can't wait to see you! Oh and for the f/os that are too devoted or introverted to talk to anyone but you, I just overheard them rambling to themself about you.. but I think they'll be on their way to see you soon as well :)

istg antis LOVE selfshipping but still need to put their anti stamps on it, like, bbg, what do you THINK proshipping is?

"WHY DO YOU SHIP YOURSELF WITH A MINOR, YOU CREEP!?"

now, this may be hard to get, but teens have been selfshipping since the birth of fandom and probably longer.

like idk he broke into my house and told me "hi sorry youre hopelessly in love with me now." and proceeded to burrow into my skull, he lives in my brain now. surely theres worse things out there than some teenager having a crush on a flower.

There's a lot of things i noticed on the anti side of selfshipping, where they find it disgusting for a minor to selfship with another minor character but they find it completely acceptable when said minor selfships with an adult character, and there have been plenty of instances of an adult calling a minor a pedo for selfshipping with a character that is, in fact, their age 😭 People of all age groups take up fandom and selfship spaces, I'm not sure where people got the idea that these spaces were only ever filled with adults anyways. Selfshipping itself has been a thing before fandoms and discourse and labels and whatever else, but it did used to be frowned upon for being considered 'weird and unconventional', proshippers are the ones who went 'hey, this is harmless, let people have their fun.' (naturally, as this is the proship mindset). Anyways anon you have your fun and enjoy your selfships and f/os however you want, you are supported and accepted!

For the pro-ship self-shippers who equally enjoy darkships and self-shipping, imagine your f/o making content of your favorite darkships with you as a way to show their support! Whether or not they're the artistically creative type, imagine your f/o still putting in the effort to try. Fics, art, blurbs, edits, roleplay, etc, they'd love to indulge in your interests with you, as a way to get closer with you and as a way to show that they're more than content with the fact that you find entertainment and/or comfort in these fictional scenarios. They think you are SO creative and feel so lucky to be with someone who has such an interesting and creative mind! Oh and yes, this also pertains to if those dark scenarios include them directly!