jell-o-mel
If gender is what’s in your pants, then I identify as soup
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Why don’t wizards who have to yell out the spell they cast ever yell “I cast iron!” and throw a cast iron pan at someone
Forgot to post my latest chrome canvas!
Scrolling through my camera roll and found a pic of the time I got really confused because I got an ad for stupid shirts and of course there were no note options at the bottom so I thought it was a post that one of the people I’m following had reblogged just to troll them with a pic of a DS
Rest in peace all homeless people
Childhood memories
First thing you see after you zoom in is how you die
How you dying 👀
I’m actually really curious
Does anyone else mix their pasta shapes together?
Wha? Why is the new tumblr icon so boring??
It’s a trap. Once you start using chrome canvas, you’ll never be able to stop.
Went on Chrome Canvas for who knows why, ended up drawing this crazy idiot, big surprise.
Don’t give me ideas
i would like to disclose when i start medically transitioning to my immediate family but also it would be REALLY FUNNY to just start HRT and wait for someone to say something
I made it to Reddit
I’m back and stupider than ever
The hardest part of being transmasc is having to go to Jupiter to get more stupider.
The hardest part of being transmasc is having to go to Jupiter to get more stupider.
My water tastes like vyvanse
Who’s going to tell them that that’s not the like button?
That must explain why I’m ace
Keyboard faces that people should use more:
:} (bird????)
:]
:7
E: (robot :3)
:•) (clown)
:>
It’s been a while since I’ve posted a flag but here is my most recent flag design/coined term
This is a label for people who experience multiple types of attraction but are fluid between those types. For example, someone may experience romantic attraction one day and alterous the next. While yes, technically you could just use the flux labels of each of the attraction types you’re fluid between, it can be easier to just use one label instead of listing them all out, especially if you don’t know what some of your attraction types are. The current name for it is attractionfluid but that name kinda sucks so I’m taking suggestions.
The flags are based off of the tertiary attraction flag because it was meant to be a label for people who are fluid between tertiary attractions because I forgot there were other types of attraction. The orange is front and center so that it can represent change. In the first one, the blue is also front and center because it’s supposed to represent fluidity.
I’m going to stop responding to this aphobe’s asks but as for their last one asking me why asexuality and aromanticism are spectrums while nothing else in the community is, that’s because you just made it up. Sexuality is a spectrum. Barely anything in the world is just black and while.
It's not gatekeeping to recognize that if you feel sexual attraction, you aren't asexual. If you feel romantic attraction, you aren't aromantic. Wanting to date and dating are the opposite of aromantic.
It seems my blog has attracted the attention of a few aphobes and gatekeepers which is why I would like to take a minute to remind everyone that if you wanna gatekeep labels, you can either go sit in the timeout corner or get off my blog
Lesbians and gay men bearding for each other isn't dating. That's called being closeted and is extremely sad.
Who gave you permission to define other people’s relationships and feelings for them?
having friends (QPR,platonic relationships) isn't dating and if you feel romantic attraction you aren't aro, you are just as allo as the rest of us.
First of all, QPR is completely different from just “having friends”
Second of all, did you seriously forget greyromantic, demiromantic, etc. exist?
Forgot to mention this but it should be added
“aromantics can still date” sure and gay men can want to be with women
are you stupid or just dumb?
First of all, aro people aren’t necessarily ace as well so many still feel sexual attraction. Not to mention, QPRs and other tertiary attraction exist. You can also have a platonic relationship (people often underestimate the strength platonic attraction or bonds can have), a romantic relationship without attraction (often cupioromantic people will have these but anyone can), a relationship where each person is attracted or in love in a different way (for example, the women could be attracted to the man in a romantic way and the gay man could be attracted in a platonic way). The possibilities are pretty much endless. And yes, I have heard of happy couples in which the partners are a gay man and lesbian woman and they aren’t together in a lavender marriage.
“aromantics can still date” sure and gay men can want to be with women
are you stupid or just dumb?
First of all, aro people aren’t necessarily ace as well so many still feel sexual attraction. Not to mention, QPRs and other tertiary attraction exist. You can also have a platonic relationship (people often underestimate the strength platonic attraction or bonds can have), a romantic relationship without attraction (often cupioromantic people will have these but anyone can), a relationship where each person is attracted or in love in a different way (for example, the women could be attracted to the man in a romantic way and the gay man could be attracted in a platonic way). The possibilities are pretty much endless. And yes, I have heard of happy couples in which the partners are a gay man and lesbian woman and they aren’t together in a lavender marriage.