This Is Important. Do Not Trash Yourself Too Hard. Be Clear On Your Flaws, But Know What Those Flaws

There's a desire in us for greater signs of fertility. Large breasts, the kind you can squeeze and caress. Tits that are expanded because the girl did it for you. This is an aspect of Bimbofication that I think gives it it's strongest source of interest. Controlling and modifying a woman to become a fertility an sex idol. The fantasy that someone wants to become a sex toy and needs only the concentrated encouragement you can provide. The best way to do this in my view would be to make it a shared effort. You want the Bimbofication to come from the fantasy of the Bimbo as much as yourself. If it's her body being changed to fit a higher impossible standard of beauty, she should have input on what sort of ass and cleavage expansion she undergoes. When the Bimbo takes possession of her body, it is better than if she was told to do so. Shared passion is better than a solitary fetish project projection.

I find it fascinating how this work frames the beauty of a woman's sexual body parts, her tits and ass and the curves of her body, as naturally magnetic to the gaze of others. It is a kink which supports a positive psychological connection between the girl's physique and her emotions. Encouraging a purity of sensual happiness.

You knew she liked attention. You knew but she didn't. She couldn't admit it. It was too vulgar, too simplistic. It collided with everything she thought she believed in. Yes, she got excited when people looked at her, and yes, she became aroused, when men catcalled her. And you even caught her getting wet while being checked out by two older men who were waiting to be seated. So you decided to put wood behind the arrow. You tricked her into more revealing, exciting demeanor, into wearing shorter and tighter dresses, higher more sexy heels, and suddenly everything got out of hand. She dropped out of class, threw away her books and agreed unreserved to have work done. Now, she is a grade A bimbo with biggest tits in town and fulfilled as never before and the center of everyone's attention, and, of course, you are gladly guilty as charged.

Let's give this man a few points. It is a problem that if there are woman who want to live the Bimbo lifestyle in real life and that is what makes them happy and they have found a partner that works with their needs and desires, that they are attacked by feminists. But guys and gals, woman couldn't vote. There's a ancient greek myth about a son could murder his mother and it was fine because they weren't related due to some warped ancient greco roman logic. As for being polite to woman. Just do that for everybody? If someone doesn't want help, respect their wishes and don't help them. If your lover wants you to act like a gentleman as part of your lifestyle? Do that. As for the trans baiting? Go look up a Contra Points video on gender. There's so much here people that is bad. This is why you don't let kink and real life clash and fuse without understanding what is real and what is your THING. Why aren't their a lot of woman engineers? A complex history of a male dominated profession and roadblocks set in the way of woman wanting those jobs. Go read history, I recommend a woman's history course or a good text on woman's history to get a grasp on how deeply woman have effected our culture and society just in America. You'd be surprised at how much shit they are involved in.

Debunking misogyny

Misogyny comes from Greek - misos (hatred) + gunē (woman). The “hatred of women” is the original, core meaning. The meaning that is still given as a short explanation of the word. The timeline of the use of “misogyny” shows a tremendous peak in the last two-three decades, “coincidentally” matching the emerge of the third-wave feminism.

Currently, if you google the term, the definition you’re given is much broader. It’s “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women” or “hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women, or prejudice against women”.

Apparently hatred was a bit too much of a strong word to throw around easily, therefore “contempt” and “prejudice” were added to help popularize the term. Funnily enough, though, the short explanation of misogyny remains “hatred of women”.

Let’s ponder “contempt” and “prejudice” for a moment - these are very, very broad terms. Basically, if you make any assumption whatsoever, it can be quite effectively called a prejudice. Things as natural as assuming a woman has a vagina are already being labelled as prejudice by transgender communities. And if that’s not a safe assumption about women, then I don’t think anything is. Same with contempt. We’ve arrived in a world where being a gentleman and offering to help carry a woman’s shopping bag can be branded contempt for said woman’s independency, strength of her body, will and character and often a presumable rape attempt. As you can see, we have enough problems with these terms as standalone expressions, but now they have been thrown into one big bag labelled “misogyny”, which means that by wanting to help a lady cross a street you can be, technically, a “hater of women”.

It gets better though! Wikipedia goes even further, by saying that “Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification”. With this definition, any action that could correlate with any of the listed “offenses” automatically translates into misogyny, with its core and most common meaning still being “hatred of women”. You’re a member of a male football team? Social exclusion, you hate women! You’re defending your family from an armed female assailant? Hostility, you hate women! You happen to be the breadwinner of your family when your wife happily takes care of the kids? Patriarchy, you hate women! You have eyes and understand math and can’t pretend a vast majority of engineers aren’t men? You’re belittling women, and therefore hating them!

And the funny thing is, with misogyny being a word that seems to be almost exclusively aimed against men, we somehow tend to forget that the social group holding the most contempt towards women is… women themselves! Feminists judging bimbos. Bimbos feeling sorry for feminist’s small tits. Successful women belittling housewives and mothers hating women who don’t have their kids puke all over their dresses. I have never met a woman who has never shown any sign of contempt towards other women. Which, by the current definitions, makes all women misogynists!

With a definition this broad, the word loses any practical meaning. It becomes an empty slogan. One that can be used anywhere by anyone and against anyone with a high percentage chance of sticking, but… So what? The word still makes no sense in its current meaning, so we might as well just forget about it.

And really… What do we need the word for? If someone is hostile, just call him or her hostile. If someone represents male privilege, whatever that little monster of a term is, then just call her or him out on that, go ahead (and try to define it while you’re at it)! Don’t elevate it to some made up blanket term that is supposed to brand everyone in this planet as a “woman hater”.

And if that isn’t enough for you to stop using the word, then by calling anyone or any action misogynistic, you are assuming that the woman (including you, if you happen to be the target) said action or individual is opressing cannot defend herself, you are belittling her. And as we already know, belittling women is misogynistic. And that’s what’s so amusing about the current definitions. Every time you use the word misogynist or misogynistic, you are being a misogynist yourself. 

Tired of the word already? Yeah, me too. Let it rest in peace.

(originally posted in June 2017)

I feel agreement. Ultra femininity will take multiple forms, and the shape of the Bimbo's personality should reflect their inner slut. If a girl wants to be a Bimbo, the kind of Bimbo she should be is best if it comes from her interests in what she finds sexy. Bimbofication is about the perfection of beauty, and beauty is of many facets. Bimbos should explore what kind of body and appearance they want for their creativity and to get the most fun out of it if this is what they want.

You reblogged it a few times, but I feel a need to reiterate. The fact that bimbofication defaults to one type bugs me. I personally love the kink, but the fact that almost every bimbofication story results in the girl no longer being a tomboy/liking darker colors/whatever feels so samey. It's not even that it's bad, in and of itself, I just feel that more people should try different stuff, you know?

I do totally agree. Honestly, everyone has their preferences, and I think part of the popularity of bimbofication is the embracing of "traditionally feminine" interests, styles, etc. that in the past have been treated as embarrassing or stupid.

But I do totally agree that pastel pink bimbo isn't the only flavor; it is, admittedly, a popular one since it fits the molds of what many people are looking for in the kink. But ultimately, bimbo diversity is a good thing.

This a fun idea. A agreed upon performance between the owner and Bimbo role. For every piece of clothing brought, an act of service. For every boob job and lip enhancement, a sexy pose or a slutty gesture. With every time you spend money on her Bimbo, she must be more of a whore to the desires of her owner, forgoing decency for depravity. That is if this is all a prior agreed upon settlement between ya and your very sure that it is all a theatrical performance to add kinky spice to your life. Asking your partner do sexual favors for things you buy? Fucked up. Don't do that And as for the don't work aspect, hope you have loads of money to provide for this lavish life style and keep you and your Bimbo partner living in a home.

There is something very beautiful about making someone slutty by complementing and praising their desire for physical perfection

To secure the fastest possible progress in her bimbo level is easy. One strategy is to create a lustful vicious cycle which short-circuits your bimbo's mental activities for good. Here comes, how it goes (other combinations are possible but this one works nicely): Make her aware that her lips and boobs are your most favorite thing on her. Compliment her, and then look only at her boobs. Soon, she will ask to have her lips filled, for she fears you have lost interest. Have her lips filled and then look only at her lips, only kiss and compliment her on the bulging, sucking perfection of a mouth. She will soon ask to have her boobs enlarged. Have them enlarged and then look only at her boobs, grope, knead them, compliment her on them. I guess the idea is clear, for now she will ask to have bigger lips and so on. It is a blissful, very elegant path to total bimbohood and satisfaction guaranteed.

I love Bimbo Whisperer's immersive dialogues underneath every picture they post. It's more arousing to get into the psychology of the fetish and embrace the lewd logic. That being said, I have a big issue with the pokemon talk used here to describe Bimbos. Treating them as only physical characteristics collected together to form different breeds of sex slave animal. It's very weird and while I get the fantasy of the bimbo as a live in lust pet, it verges on this is too dehumanizing. Fucking written hot as fuck tho. To be clear, the writing is sexy, the subtext is what gets me eh.

Claudia Rivier/ Croatia

On What Sort of DM's I'll do

I'm open to talking about writing for fantasy works, worldbuilding, and discussions on smut and the meanings in it. I am fine with NSFW DM's with pretty girls(sorry bros. Ain't my thing) and talking about sex with them. Hot and beautiful trans girls are included. Girls are girls, and trans attractive trans girls are girls. I do not do sissy stuff. It ain't my thing. If a stunning Trans girl is into that being done to them? Sure I'll DM on it, but I do not do sissy for myself.

This has a seed of toxic elements in ignoring what the woman feels. Denying her confusion and therefore by ignoring it making her feel it is not real. Being fair, this is a kink thing so it being fucked up in small ways is just part of the nature of the beast. A beautiful and enchanting beast, what's made Bimbofication striking for me is how it has a appreciation for happiness, female beauty, and female appreciation. Contrast to other degrading kinks which generate arousal by calling the girl a slut as an insult or turning her into a slut against her will and having her perform sexually vile actions to shame her. Bimbofication by contrast is the glowing golden sun which affirms the slut instead of assault her.

Whatever her goals have been, you've never asked, you just strove to release, free, unburden her from the pressure. You denied attention to her confusion. You didn't call them to attention, when you celebrated your communion. There are words of emptiness, and thoughts of nothingness, you better dismiss by ignoring not by rephrasing or argumentative weakening them. So you ignored completely her misconceptions, made her focus on joy, on pleasure, on dancing, kissing, on caressing, being a doll, a sweetheart, not a doubting unhappy person. And after a while she walked proudly at your side, proud to be yours, proud to shine, in bliss, beautiful and full of physical profound happiness, affirming femininity and destined brilliant, man-made voluptuousness.

Remember, you live and die by the fans. They are the life blood of storytelling for big settings like D&D. Their homebrew and investment in creating more for the IP will have it alive an in and in the minds of people in a way paid advertising can't.